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Entertainment dating phenomenon curving: "Let change the topic"

19:30  25 november  2022
19:30  25 november  2022 Source:   zeitjung.de

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 Dwayne Johnson: no more in the same and unpleasant "It's not due to you" conversation? Better to open this than to open this dating phenomenon. © Zeitjung Imagine the following scenario: You got to know someone there, you write each other and you get butterflies in your stomach. So you inquire about a date, but your counterpart gives way to your question instead of responding to them.

no longer feel the same and unpleasant "It is not due to you" conversation? Better to open this than to open this dating phenomenon.

  Dating-Phänomen Curving: „Lass mal Thema wechseln“ © Zeitjung

Imagine the following scenario: You got to know someone there, you write each other and you get butterflies in your stomach. So you inquire about a date, but your counterpart gives way to your question instead of responding to them.

The phenomenon that has just been described is also called "curving" in the dating jargon : Instead of potentially driving the relationship with a clear answer to the wall (which can happen quickly in the event of injured feelings), some people prefer to scratch the curve. As soon as the question of a meeting is in the room, either the topic is changed or the question is simply ignored. Unlike the Ghosting , the contact is not canceled. This is then interpreted in such a way that potentially interest in a date could potentially exist - after all, he/she didn't really say no. So we keep trying, asking again and again.

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The curse of ambiguity

by means of curving you want to avoid a potentially unpleasant conversation and/or do not hurt the feelings of the other person: A clear "no" finally hurts like hell, we all know that. Then it's actually something good, isn't it? The other person will notice that I have no interest in an Date . So why express the words?

because it is not obvious! How our personal Fascho regime bends every little attention and every signal as it suits us in the plan. Then there is not much to tear with subtle (or less subtle) signals, it takes a real wake -up call.

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by curving, the confrontation can usually be delayed, but not quite prevent . Finally, two different expectations collide here, one of which is impossible: While one person relies on everything that others recognize the situation on its own, the other secretly hopes that everything regulates over time and stays on it .

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So if you notice that you behave like this towards other people, then try to put yourself in your situation: Wouldn't you rather have a clear answer, even if it could hurt first? If there is no interest, then it is okay to say that too . On the other hand, if you have the feeling that you are "curved yourself", you should address the other person to it: Why does he/she not respond to your question? If there is no answer (or if it does not fail as hoped), then you at least know what you are.

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