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Don't Feel Responsible for Everyone's Airfare and Accommodations
Consider this: If you live in Miami and attend a wedding as a guest or bridesmaid in Chicago, the bride and groom aren't expected to pick up your airfare or hotel expenses. Nobody ever pays for out-of-town guests as a matter of tradition or etiquette. Choosing to have a destination wedding does not change the rules. It simply levels the playing field for your guests. Everybody has to travel and therefore, everybody has expenses.
In some special cases, however, you may feel compelled to help out a few specific friends or wedding party members who you know couldn't afford to make the trip otherwise. But this should be done very discreetly and you shouldn't tell anyone else that you and your fiancé have decided to do it. Others might feel put out you didn't think they were entitled to assistance, and the receiver of your help could be embarrassed.
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You Can, However, Discreetly Pay for a Few Guests Who Couldn't Otherwise Make It
Use serious judgment about who to pay for before you make any offers like that. You could easily spend as much money on guests' travel and accommodations as you spend on the entire wedding. Just because somebody can't afford to travel to your destination wedding — for whatever reason — doesn't make it your obligation or responsibility to pick up the tab. Only do so when the person you're helping is someone you absolutely, positively have to have at your wedding. You might even be able to use some of those points you've racked up to cover the cost of a flight.
Invite All Your Destination Wedding Guests to the Rehearsal Dinner
You are actually probably doing far more for your guests at a destination wedding than most brides and grooms do for wedding guests at home. Case in point? The rehearsal dinner. Traditionally, only the wedding party, family, and out-of-town guests are invited to the rehearsal dinner. At a destination wedding, everybody is from out of town, and therefore, everybody is invited to attend everything (with the exception, perhaps, of something like a bridesmaids' luncheon).
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Host a Welcome Event and/or Farewell Brunch
In addition to the rehearsal dinner, make sure to keep your guests well fed throughout the wedding weekend. Most destination wedding couples have some kind of welcome event or farewell brunch. Consider throwing a beach party or casual picnic instead of a traditional formal sit-down affair for these events. Everyone made such an effort to be with you for the wedding, so these events give you more time to spend with them, as well as the opportunity to show your thanks one more time.
Offset Your Guests' Destination Wedding Costs
Though you won't be paying everyone's way, you can do things to offset their costs, especially for your bridal party. For example, you can check with the hotel where you're booking rooms to see if they offer free rooms if a certain number of reservations are made. If they offer a deal, like a free night for every 10 booked, set those free rooms aside for your bridesmaids and groomsmen.
Another idea to consider is requesting that your guests not give you gifts. Emphasize that their presence is gift enough, and that you wouldn't dream of letting them buy you a wedding gift on top of paying for airfare and lodging. Even if you don't extend this request to all your guests, it's good destination wedding etiquette to tell your bridal party that gifts are unnecessary.
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