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A Modern Guide to Gift-Giving Etiquette
The rules about re-gifting might surprise you.You should always bring a gift to someone’s home. The host may say, “Don’t bring anything” but they won’t refuse your lovely gesture once you arrive. A hostess gift can be a small, token item, such as a candle, festive cocktail napkins, or even a home-baked good.
It's the thought that counts when it comes to Christmas gifts. Not every present is going to be, but sometimes it seems like people don't put any thought into their present at all. So there's always a possibility of receiving a gift that's not right for you. Prepare for the worst, and hope for the best, with these tips from etiquette expert, author, and Golden Rules Gal, .
What do you do when you receive a bad Christmas gift?
The first step is to try your best to accept the gift with politeness and gratitude, so you don't insult the gifter. The proper way to always respond to any gift is with a simple "thank you." Say it with sincerity and eye contact, even if you'll never use their gift. The last thing you want is an awkward pause, according to Grotts. It might be helpful to practice your responses while smiling. Bottom line: Practice the golden rule and treat others the way you would like to be treated. "Would you want your feelings hurt by someone reacting negatively to your gift?" Grotts says. It's hard to shop for some people, which is why there's a list of.
This Is the Best Time of Day to Return Christmas Gifts
As the holiday cheer wears off, the last thing you want is to be stuck in a long line of cranky shoppers. Almost everyone is in the same boat, though, with almost two-thirds of shoppers making a return over the holiday season, according to data from the National Retail Foundation. With numbers like that, a “quick” return or exchange can turn into a headache-inducing excursion. Luckily, if you plan correctly, you can be in and out in no time.
What do I do with the bad gift?
Many retailers include a gift receipt, so returns or exchanges are discrete. It's totally OK to return or exchange a bad gift, but according to Grotts, don't ask for the receipt if the gifter didn't include it. "It's implied that you will be returning the gift if you ask for a receipt," Grotts says. You might be able to get away with asking for the receipt if the items are clothing that won't fit. You'll want to. If that's not the case, however, there are two other options—re-gift or donate. Just make sure to cover your tracks, so you don't accidentally re-gift within the same circle of family or friends. Otherwise, it may get back to the original gifter, Grotts says.
Is it OK to ask for specific gifts?
It's impolite to send out a wish list unless you are a child sending it to the North Pole, according to Grotts. "Overindulgence is common over the holiday season, and sending out a wish list is thought of as gift-grabby," she says. So how can you get what you want for Christmas? "Save up for it yourself, but don't put a head trip on friends or family," Grotts says. It's a big etiquette no-no to share a list. Remember that along with these other.
Bottom line: It's the season of giving, not receiving
To be anything less than gracious about any type of gift is unacceptable, Grotts says. "It's the season of giving, not receiving," she says. Always show gratitude and appreciation for others, especially when they take the time and money to purchase something just for you. Some ofa tiny, but priceless.
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