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OpinionOpinions | Michelle Obama just said what we’re all thinking

17:35  05 december  2018
17:35  05 december  2018 Source:   msn.com

Michelle Obama swore when criticizing Sheryl Sandberg’s ‘lean in’ mantra, and the Internet lost it

Michelle Obama swore when criticizing Sheryl Sandberg’s ‘lean in’ mantra, and the Internet lost it The former first lady made her comment Saturday night while promoting her best-selling book in Brooklyn.

Opinions | Michelle Obama just said what we’re all thinking© Teresa Crawford/ Former first lady Michelle Obama speaks with students at her alma mater, Whitney M. Young Magnet High School, on Chicago's West Side, Monday, Nov. 12, 2018.

“That whole ‘so you can have it all.’ Nope, not at the same time. That’s a lie,” said Michelle Obama. “And it’s not always enough to lean in, because that s--- doesn’t work all the time.” The crowd at her Saturday night book-tour stop was already hanging on every word, but this line set them alight.

A former first lady saying the s-word will always cause a stir, and Obama quickly apologized -- “I forgot where I was for a moment!”

But the excitement was for something else, too — a jolt of affirmation. The audience in Brooklyn’s Barclays Center, and the younger fans who endlessly shared and retweeted the moment, felt the delight of having their feelings seen and recognized and their disappointment validated.

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Obama’s reference to “leaning in” called out Sheryl Sandberg’s 2013 book and the movement it sparked. On the heels of the Great Recession, the Facebook chief operating officer encouraged young women to follow her example. “Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead” promised that working harder would lead to individual advancement and to a more gender-equitable economy as a whole.

Except it didn’t. The eager young joiners of the “Lean In” circles watched as the number of women in leadership positions actually fell after the book’s publication, as the #MeToo movement exposed more intractable barriers to success and as Sandberg herself came under fire for her behavior at Facebook. It was all deflating, but really that deflation is just part of a larger trend.

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A generation of millennials feels let down by our elders, experts, institutions or some combination of the three: those whom we were asked to look up to and trust in the most important arenas of life. Their supposedly surefire paths to success (or at least stability) now feel more like scams. We’re building up to a backlash.

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Disappointment in the promises of mainstream politicians, for example, manifested in support for Bernie Sanders in 2016 and in the rapid rise of New York Rep.-elect Alexandria Ocasio Cortez (D) in 2018. Her democratic socialist politics are a repudiation of what the establishment would have us accept. We’re hoping that she — one of us — will upend the system.

Further, our frustration with those who promised that politeness and order would bring about justice is revealing itself in a backlash against “civility” as such. We’re not willing to wait a decorous few days before castigating George H.W. Bush. We don’t feel guilty running Sen. Ted Cruz (R-Tex.) or White House press secretary Sarah Sanders out of a restaurant. Decorum may be nice, but the promises heaped upon it were lies.

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“That s--- doesn’t work.”

Obama’s admission was more evidence that our disappointment and anger are justified. The fact that it came from someone who had been in the position to hand down those same pronouncements made her acknowledgment even more valuable.

In comparison with the usual cant — that it’s somehow our fault that things didn’t turn out as they were promised, that we didn’t follow the rules closely enough — Obama’s frankness was a breath of fresh air. Maybe it means the establishment is waking up, or maybe it’s just the former FLOTUS herself, whose clear view of reality has always been evident.

In the midst of our discontent, we’ll celebrate anything we can get.

Read more:

Christine Emba: Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez is appealing because she’s real. Can she keep it that way?

Molly Roberts: Sheryl Sandberg and the emptiness of leaning in

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